Category: Thoughts

When someone treats you like you’re just one of many options, help them narrow their choice by removing yourself from the equation. Sometimes you have to try not to care, no matter how much you do. Because sometimes you can mean almost nothing to someone who means so much to you. It’s not pride –…

Problems are part of life, they will never stop coming. It seems unbearable when we have no control over it, when we are unable to cope with the pain and the fear. We can’t control everything in our lives. The thing we can only control is our attitude toward any situation. So the problem is…

You’re allowed to move slow. You’re allowed to take your time. You’re allowed to take a break. Stop letting the world convince you that you have to rush everything and get everything you want or else it means you’re falling short. Stop allowing others to make you feel like you’re not good enough or successful…

What others say or think about you doesn’t define who you are, what defines you is you, from the moment you wake up and the decisions you make through each of your day, only you know what u been through, how u struggled and fought back ur emotions, no one does and quite frankly no…

Struggles, challenges and hard times offer you much more value than any other time in your life. You can not grow without struggle. You can not get STRONGER without resistance. Think about a time in your life that may have been hard, but forced you to become better. Get grateful for the struggles and WORK…

I want to tell you something… No matter what you have been through, never stop trying. Do not give up. Push through the pain. Know that you can do it. Believe in better. Work harder through the hard times. Enjoy every minute of the good times. Inspired others. Emulate the best. Forget the worst. Love…

How to Care Less about What Other People Think

It’s important to know what thoughts you are feeding into your mind because your thoughts create your beliefs and experiences. You have positive thoughts and you have negative ones too. Nurture your mind with positive thoughts: kindness, empathy, compassion, peace, love, joy, humility, generosity, etc. The more you feed your mind with positive thoughts, the…

People who know their value don’t go running after people; they don’t beg for people to stay in their lives, they don’t try to prove their worth to people, they don’t feel sorry for themselves when people don’t chose them… The more you know your value the less you’ll suffer when people choose to leave…

Turn down the volume of your negative inner voice and create a nurturing inner voice to take its place. When you make a mistake, forgive yourself, learn from it, and move on instead of obsessing about it. Equally important, don’t allow anyone else to dwell on your mistakes or shortcomings or to expect perfection from…